Discouraged
Mom’s doing better and getting around well, but I’m kind of down. Part of it is that the kids are away. Their boundless energy is a tonic, in many ways, keeping me “up when I’m down.” They are with their Dad for the next week, and I miss them. And part of it is sleep deprivation. I’ve been staying up late working on various projects, and I just don’t do well on less than eight hours. It’s really rather stupid of me to try to manage on five to six hours, but old habits die hard, and I used to pull all-nighters with ease. I have to keep reminding myself that I am not in my twenties any more. Sigh.
I’m also tired of the whole “house” thing. I just want it to be DONE. But there are all these little loose ends to tie up — ends that seemed a good idea for us to do at first, since I was on such a tight budget and could save a bundle by doing these things myself. But now, frankly, I’m sick of the whole thing. I wish I could wave my magic wand and make everything take its appointed place in the house, move in, and sit back to enjoy.
And I have outside things I’m behind on as well. I’m teaching a seminar on newsletter design at the end of the month, and I haven’t even begun to put the presentation together yet. I know WHAT I want to say, but gathering visuals and creating the Powerpoint is not happening. I need to get a newsletter out this week, and that’s stalled.
Most of all of my behind-ness is due to having had to cover two jobs at the office for two months. And the new girl is just that — “new.” I’m still doing a lot of extra work in training her. Not that I mind, as she is bright and willing and seems able to do the work. But it means that back-burner, secondary tasks are having to stay on the back burner. And I want them done!
Sigh. Oh well. This, too, shall pass, and I will be stronger for it. What doesn’t kill me makes me stronger, and I’m definitely not getting killed. Overwhelmed and frustrated, yes. Killed, no.
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Take a deep breath. Exhale. Focus on one thing at a time.
(wouldn’t that be nice – one thing at a time and no interruptions) I lived your situation and still remember how it was. Maybe it would help to remind yourself that you’re useful, necessary and productive. People need you. One of these days you’ll wish for a bit of that.
Hang in there. Just when the worst gets worse.. better shows up. ~Peace, OTA
Things will get better soon!